Words are a powerful weapon you can mend them and use them accordingly. The appropriate words are required for expressing your emotions. You can convey the feeling of happiness, care, love, appreciation, sorrow, and sympathy through it. Words represent you and make the receiver feel your emotions. The same goes for sympathy messages, the receiver of such messages feels a little stronger to travel the journey of grievance.
Sympathy messages are also known as condolence messages that are written to the person going through the loss of a family member, relative, or loved one. The purpose of this sympathy message is to reassure the grieving person that he/she is not alone and you are there to support her physically and emotionally. Your simple words can take away the sorrow of the grieving person so be careful while writing them.
The bereaved might be in an even deeper grieving if she has lost her husband. The husband is the life partner, he is there to support the wife at every step from happy days to sorrowful moments. He is there to hold the hand of his wife tightly. But if the person who was the most important pillar of her sheltered life has gone she will feel miserable and devastated. It was necessary for her family members, sisters, brother, friends, relatives, neighbors, and colleagues to reassure her and support her through messages and daily visits and let her know that she is not alone.
Things you need to keep in mind before writing the sympathy message
Writing a message to others is tough as it is, but writing a sympathy message makes it more challenging. If you are wondering if it is as simple as writing a small text or a short message to anybody then no! You need to think carefully before writing to anyone,
- Being aware of who you are writing to, their age, and your culture helps in constructing the message appropriately.
- Select the vocabulary wisely, don’t use difficult words, write the message as simply as possible.
- Write the message honestly only then it will deliver heartfelt emotions to the receivers.
- If the receiver of the message is older than you then avoid using an informal tone.
- Know who his messages are directed, is it for the family? brother? sister? parents? children? etc.
- Write the message to the closest person in the family instead of writing it randomly to everyone.
You can send handwritten messages, digital messages, printed messages, etc. Just make sure it is appropriate or else you can make the bereaved feel uncomfortable.
Here are some of the tips that will be a lifesaver for writing sympathy cards for the loss of a husband.
Comforting a grieving wife via text
Showing support through text messages is the most effective way of showing care before and after the funeral. The grieving wife may feel lonely after the funeral is over and the guest is all gone. A small text message along with a leather bracelet with her husband’s name on it may remind her of the support you are willing to give her and find comfort in it. Here are some examples of sympathy text messages,
- Sorry for your loss, all my sympathies are with you.
- I am out of words, but remember this too shall pass so don’t lose hope.
- The presence of your husband is unforgettable, he will be remembered in kind words, always.
- Your husband was one of the most amazing people I have ever met, I send my condolences to you and your family.
- I know nothing feels the same, but please try to be strong, your husband would want you that way as well.
What to say to the person who lost her husband
Talking face to face is difficult, you might express your emotions more vividly but not making the widower feel overwhelmed with sorrow is a tougher job. You can give the widower an initial and a date disk engraved with the husband’s initial and death date. Here’s what you can say while meeting her,
- Sorry to hear about your loss, I felt devastated after I heard the news. I haven’t met any person who has a better sense of humor than your husband. He made us all laugh at tough times and I want to return the favor by bringing a smile to your face. Stay strong.
- With a heavy heart, I am here to meet you. Your husband was a very kindhearted person.
- Don’t feel afraid you are not alone, my family and I will love to help you out.
- I am aware that my words won’t be enough to share your pain and sorrow, my most genuine condolence is with you.
- I was so shocked to hear the news. Poor girl don’t lose hope you need to act brave for your kids and family
How to comfort someone for their husband’s loss via social media
When sending your condolences via social media make sure your message is concise and not cliche. you can extend your condolence and send her a charm with her husband’s picture inside of it to remind her of him, Here is what you can write,
- Sorry about the news, No one can feel the pain like you do. Your husband was a rightful man and he will be smiling at you from the heavens.
- My condolences, hope you can recover from the grievance.
- Sorry! I know it is heart-wrenching for you. You both were the perfect couple I admired. I am always there for you sister.
- My deepest consoling, May your husband’s soul rest in peace.
- Sorry for your loss, Your husband worked the hardest in the office. Condolence from all his colleagues.
What to say to someone who lost their husband after a long illness
The journey of fighting the illness is tough for everyone. But it mentally prepares the loved ones that the time is near and that they are about to lose the person. You can give your friend an infinity ring and remind her of the eternal love that prevails even when death does them apart. Here’s what you can say to her along with it,
- God has freed your husband from the pain. Now he can rest in peace.
- Sorry for the loss, It was heart wrecking seeing him fight illness on his deathbed. He was a strong fighter, we will always remember him.
- We like to share her sympathies with you. You both tried to battle his illness hard but unfortunately, the time was not enough for him.
- We are very saddened to hear about the death of your husband. Hope has found peace in heaven and we pray that patience, happiness, and hope can find you as well.
- I feel so devastated about hearing the news about your husband’s death. He was doing so great, never could have imagined that. Don’t be hard on yourself, Take care.
Words of sympathy for the loss of a husband from cancer
There are many life-threatening diseases like cancer that are not easily cured. The patient needs extra care, timely checkups, and treatment to fight it off. But sometimes this all is not enough. Send your relative, friend, or sister this memorial rock slate with the picture of his late husband and remind her of the happy times along with a heartfelt message like,
- Never could have envisioned that (name), wouldn’t be among us anymore. The family gathering won’t feel the same now, we will miss him.
- I hate cancer. He has taken my favorite person away from me. Don’t fear Your sister-in-law is there for you. I will miss him.
- I can’t keep my emotions inside, want to fly to you and hug you as tightly as I can. I Pray his soul finds peace and you can recover from this wrenching grief.
- Sorry for your loss, You both fought cancer till the end but it was meant like this. My compassion is with you.
- You might feel as if your world has been shattered into pieces but please don’t lose hope. You need to fight the pain and stand up if not for yourself then for your family.
Words of sympathy for the loss of an ex-husband
Expressing sympathy for the loss of your Ex-husband is tricky. Be mindful of the words you are using. Try to sound respectful and kind while you are conveying your condolences to her wife. Send her a small flower plant with her husband’s name on it to show your support for her. You can express your consoling by,
- I know things are hard for you, but please be strong.
- Sorry for your loss, your husband was a great man.
- My most resounding consolations, It is a difficult phase for you and your family.
- Sad to hear about the death of your husband. Hope his soul can rest in peace.
- My condolences, no words can share the pain your bear right now. I am there to extend a helping hand.
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